So, quit vibrating. You can’t see clearly with all that shaking, anyway. Think about what’s solid and secure and true. And then stick to that script. Make a decision. Do something.
“The other way is to get fit and stay healthy. It’s the hard way. You need to drop about ten pounds and stay that way. You need to keep up with a good diet and daily exercise. But you really have to do it. Everyone tells me that they want to do it, but no one does.
I cannot tell you how fast my legs turned to lead. Heck, my whole body turned to lead.
What does it even mean to have a relationship that doesn’t work the way it’s intended?
We tell ourselves that we have examined the evidence and have come to a thoughtful position but that’s very rarely true.
But, sometimes, often maybe, it’s good to remember that the universe rolls on in mysterious and enormous ways. With or without a person to notice.