Sometimes, what seems small brings great rewards.
A few years ago we moved a couple hundred miles from our home near Seattle. In the Seattle area, we lived in a 3,500 square foot house and most rooms had plenty of overflowing junk. The thought of moving everything was daunting so we got a little crazy and start selling stuff as fast as we could list it on ebay or Craigslist. It was fun. We made a few bucks and found things we thought long lost. Over the next couple of years, we did the same thing twice as we moved first to New York and then to South Carolina.
I’ve been surprised at how little I miss my stuff. And what really surprises me is that I don’t even remember anything we sold other than a few tools and my copy of the OED. We were saving stuff because of a hoarder mentality: we might need it one day and we never did. And we never have since.
So I’ve become a believer in less is more. Somehow having less stuff on the outside makes me feel less cluttered on the inside.
There are lots of good resources for people wanting to clean up but here are a few things that helped us keep on the narrow path of less:
- Get rid of your broken stuff. This is a hard one for me. I want to fix everything. This weekend. Between trips to the dump and the store and getting the girls new shoes. In other words, the want never quite makes it to the do. Most of the time it just makes sense throw stuff out. Your closets and garage, and maybe your brain, will thank you.
- It really is good advice: if you haven’t used it in a year, then get rid of it. Don’t throw out grandma’s old quilt but, really, that half-empty bag of lawn fertilizer? C’mon. You couldn’t break it with a sledge. Toss it.
- If you can buy it for the cost a two or three cups of coffee then throw it away. I used to keep all kinds of stuff. I would buy a pack of flashlight bulbs for two bucks and use only one. The one left in the blister pack was like gold. I’d cart it from tool box to tool box and shuffle through stacks of other opened stuff trying to find anything. I admit this is still hard but now I use what I need and through the rest away. I feel wasteful but I don’t have the space for it and I’m tired of moving it. For the same reason, we don’t shop at Sam’s Club or Costco much. I don’t need four gallons of tomato sauce at a time. It just clutters things up unless you’ve got an industrial sized pantry. Use what you need and throw the rest away.
- We’ve slowly been shifting our mindset from that of rushing out to buy what we need or want to taking time to buy things that are useful and that bring us some joy. We could buy any old pan for cooking but love our Le Creuset pots. Just using them makes me a little happier. They feel good. They’re easy to control. And it makes the purchase something more enjoyable rather than just going out to buy whatever fits the bill.
- Give stuff away. First, I called anyone who gave us things to see if they wanted it back. Most of them laughed and said they got rid of to clean up. So we gave things to food banks or charities where they could either give it away or sell it to purchase things new.
- An educational note for those who have never sold things: you know that hard cover copy of Steven King’s Carrie that you’ve been lovingly dusting and ‘curating’ for the last twenty years? It’s worth about fifty cents if you can find anyone to buy it. We found that a great sale is twenty percent or so of what you paid. Expect five to ten and you won’t be disappointed. No one is trying to offend you – they just don’t want your junk unless you’re giving it away.
So clean up a bit. Start with a drawer or a room – there’s no rule that says you have to go top to bottom all at once. Your brain will feel better.
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